Definitely, your partner may not always be able to meet up with your expectation. If that is the case, you should not die in silence. You have to complain or let him or her know that there is a problem. However, it is not every issue that you should complain about.
There is the tendency for some people to think that most couples become annoyed with their partners when they are not able to meet their financial needs. Financial needs are important but they are the main issues that can result in unhappiness in marriage. They only constitute a problem when your partner intentionally does not want to meet them. Intentional denial of financial assistance in marriage is regarded as domestic violence and it is a very crucial issue in marriage. But when the denial is as a result of poverty, then you cannot blame your partner. There are also some people that are very frugal and stingy even to the extent of denying themselves comfort as a means of saving money. They will have the financial means to obtain comfort in life but they will prefer to live on the level of management. This behavior is very bad. Definitely, if your spouse is the type that is very stingy with money or that intentionally refuse to meet your financial need, it is advisable that you discuss the issue with him or let him or her know that there is a problem or that you are not happy with him.
You may be unhappy with your spouse because he could not meet all your emotional needs. Emotional needs are even stronger than financial needs and they are many. Your financial and others needs may even be embedded in emotional needs because they are geared towards making your to be internally happy and satisfied. If you are denied of financial happiness, you will not emotionally stable because you are not internally happy. This same thing occurs when your partner is not available to you always especially when you need him or her. Sexual needs are also included in the emotional needs. So, you should make a complaint when your husband or wife does not meet your emotional needs.
The second way of not meeting the expectation of your spouse is by doing things that make him or her unhappy. This means that your partner is not happy with your behavior. For example, you will not be happy with your husband or wife is he or she abuses alcohol or hard drugs. Flirting is another behavior that may make your unhappy in marriage. If your partner is doing anything that you do not like, you have to let him or her know so that the issue will be resolved.
In summary, do not die in silence. When you are not happy with your partner, it may be difficult for you to take your relationship to the level where romantic love occurs. If your partner is guilty of any of the above, it is advisable that you complain because experience has shown that sometimes people get on their partner's nerves without knowing it. However, you should make the complaint at the right time and in the right manner. Don't worsen the situation by not complaining rightly. The next article will tell you how to make the complaint.