Your life as a single individual is quite difference from your life as a married person. If you are married to a person you love, though you are not a slave to that person and you are free, there is always a limit to what you can do. There are certain type of relationship that you should not keep or if you keep them, you should be careful of how to go about it. Opposite sex relationship is highly discouraged for couples or people who are married. This is because most of cases of extramarital affairs started gradually on platonic level and eventually it ended becoming romantic and sensual and sexual relationship. This is one fact that you should not overlook. Experience has proved it right. In the light of the above, here are some of the opposite sex relationship that you should be wary of.
Avoid your former lover
If you were previously into relationship and later you got married to another person, it is advisable that you steer clear from your previous lover especially any person that you have had knowledge of their bodies. There is the tendency for some people to think that they can easily maintain a platonic relationship with former lovers. This may work for some people but for some other people, it is far from being the truth. If you have had any sexual relationship with any person freely without any compassion, it will be easier for you to have an affair with that person.
Any friend of yours that your partner is not enthusiastic about
In your social life after marriage, you should be wary or careful on to relate with any friend of yours that your partner did not fully approved or is not enthusiastic. There is nothing wrong in relating with such a person. The only problem with such a relationship is that it will agitate your partner and the consequences may be very damaging to your relationship.
Any opposite friend of your that you have feelings for
Emotions and feelings is very powerful and it can overcome any person. As a person whether you are married or not, in one way or the other, you will be attracted to one opposite sex. There is nothing wrong in becoming attracted to somebody emotionally. But where the problem lies is to allow yourself to be overcome by the emotion. The best way to avoid emotion in marital relationship in this regard is to shun a relationship with any person that you are attracted. If you avoid such a relationship, you are avoiding the temptation to ignite your passions so that they will overcome you. The same could be said when an opposite sex friend has feelings for you.
Any opposite friend that meets your need for affection
This is similar to the immediate question above. Opposite sex friends that can meet your sexual needs can cause you to a victim of extramarital affairs. It is easier to fall in love to a person that can meet your sexual needs than to fall in love to a person that cannot meet. So, any opposite sex friend that has all its takes to satisfy your sexual need may constitute a thread to your marital relationship and so you have to be wary of how you relate with the person.