It is the wish of most young girls to get married to men the love. Besides, marriage is the natural means of perpetuate human race. So, it is not bad to get married. However, many young ladies entered into marriage but they never enjoyed it because they did not plan it very well. So, before getting married, it is important that you plan it very well. There are a number of factors to take into consideration. Here are some helpful pieces of advice for young women planning to get married.
Dress and appear cute always
As a young lady, it is important that you dress and appear cute always. This is because men are always to neatly dressed and nice looking women. If you package yourself very well, definitely, men will come for your hand in marriage leaving you with options.
Obtain basic education and be resourceful
In most developing nations, women do not go to schools. This is because of the wrong impression that women’s education end in kitchen or the idea of not allowing women to work. This is no longer the case in the contemporary world. Most men today prefer marrying women with at least basic education for different reasons. Some may want it in order to boost their ego while some want that simply for economic reasons. There are some men that have little or no education who are looking for women that have obtained some level of education to make up for their lack. Even if you are not educated, it is important that you have something doing. Most men nowadays, look for women who can help them financially. Such men will even prefer marrying a woman that is doing something to marrying an educated woman that is not doing anything.
Whether you are living alone or you are living with your parents and siblings, it is important that you be responsible. In whatever you are doing, show high sense of responsibility. Men like women who are responsible.
Don’t look for the perfect men
There is no such thing as a perfect man. So, you will be making a grave mistake if you are looking for a perfect man. But this does not mean that you should marry any man that wants your hand in marriage. Just define the characters you want your ideal man to have. Rate and score him base on those characters. If he scores up to 70% or even 60%, then you can marry the person. What is wrong is becoming too choosy or looking for a man that meets all requirements or that score 100%. You will never find such a man.
Learn your partner’s characters
When you find a man, don’t rush into marriage immediately. Court the man in order to learn the person’s character and way of life. If you like the person’s behavior, you can on with the marriage. But if you don’t like the person’s character, there is no need to enter the marriage.